It took me a long time to realize this. However long we are wanting for things to transform, they won't ever will. However long we're needing ourselves to improve, we will not. However long we have a direction toward the future, we can never unwind into what we already have or what we already are.
One of the most profound habitual pattern that we have is to feel that what we are doing right now isn't sufficient. We recollect the previous memories or thoughts a a lot, which possibly was superior to now, or maybe more terrible. We likewise think ahead a lot to the future—which we may fear—continually holding out trust that it very well may be somewhat better compared to now. Regardless of whether everything is going well in the present —we have great well being and we've met the perfect individual, or landed the position we needed. But there's a profound inclination consistently to consider how it will be later. We don't exactly give ourselves full kudos for who we are in the present.It's not difficult to trust that things will improve because of contemplation, that we will not have such awful tempers any longer or we will not have dread any longer or individuals will like us more than they do now. Or then again perhaps none of those things are issues for us, however we believe we aren't sufficiently profound. Doubtlessly we will associate with that conscious, splendid, holy world that we will discover through reflection.
In all that we read, regardless of whether it's way of thinking or dharma books or brain research. There's the ramifications that we're trapped in some sort of little point of view and that in the event that we just did the right things, we'd start to interface with a greater world, a vaster world, not quite the same as the one we're in at this point.
There won't be some valuable future time when every one of the last details will be restricted. Something that keeps us miserable is this persistent looking for delight or security, looking for somewhat more agreeable circumstance, either at the homegrown level or at the profound level or at the degree of mental peace. As long as we're needing to be more slender, more intelligent, more edified, less uneasy, or whatever it very well may be, some way or another we're continually going to be moving toward our concern with exactly the same rationale that made it regardless: we're not sufficient. That is the reason the habitual pattern never loosens up itself when we're attempting to improve, in light of the fact that we go about it in the very same constant style that made all the torment start.
This is the reason it's being said, "Surrender any expectation of fulfillment."
"Realization" infers that at a future time we will feel better. There is another word, which is open—to have an open heart and receptive outlook. This is situated especially to the present. The essential guidance is consistently about being conscious right now. That is the thing that there is to awaken to.
Actually there's nothing that you think or feel that by one way or another gets placed in the classification of "wrong doing." There's nothing that we can think or feel that gets placed in the classification of "awful." There's nothing that we can think or feel that gets placed in the class of "wrong." It's all acceptable stuff—the fertilizer of awakening, the excrement of accomplishing edification, A way of living in the present moment.
So what should be the best way to live ? Quit battling against the way that things are getting past us. Quit battling against the way that nothing's strong in any case and things don't last. Realizing that can give us a great deal of room and a ton of room if we make peace with it as opposed to shouting and battling against it.
One thing we must not forget is that every day may not be a good day, but there is good in every day.
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